Sunday, July 26, 2015

The Key (John 6 - Part 1)

Readings from Sunday, July 26/ 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
2 Kings 4:42-44
Psalm 145
Ephesians 4:1-6
John 6:1-15

This week we begin the five-week reading of the Bread of Life Discourse in John 6, which is one of the most beautiful and important in the whole of Scripture. The Old and New Testaments are full of all sorts of powerful stories, inspiring messages, and encouraging quotes, but it seems to me that John 6 ranks even ahead of them for the simple fact that it is Jesus Christ Himself talking about the Eucharist. The Eucharist, as Vatican II’s Sacrosanctum Concilium tells us, is the source and summit of the Christian life; it is the starting place of our life and it’s the end goal toward which we perpetually move. The Eucharist is everything because it is Jesus Himself. And what a joy it is to have these five weeks to pause and reflect on that blessed gift.

The whole section begins with a reading from 2 Kings to help set the stage because we begin at a disadvantage being 2000 years after the events. The Jewish people of the day were a verbal culture that told their story over and over again in great detail to recount the many ways that God had worked in their midst. They were able to recognize in daily life the many stories and little details from the Old Testament, much like we are able to do from time to time with the Gospels, and apply them in their own day. We Catholics are infamous for not being strong in our Old Testament studies, so the Church gives us a little foothold to start with in the person of Elisha the prophet.

Elisha, being the successor of Elijah the prophet, was a man of great notoriety and did many wondrous works. Today we hear that there are a hundred hungry people before him and the only food available is twenty barley loaves, which we’re told would not be enough for the whole crowd. Knowing the Lord’s desire to work a miracle, Elisha commands the bread to be passed out anyway and the miracle of the multiplication happens in the midst of the people, much to their amazement. God has provided for His people!

It is this miracle that sets the background for us to commence the reflection on John 6, which begins in much the same fashion. The Gospel begins with the Lord getting out of the boat once again and walking ashore with His disciples. Rather than stop on the shore of the sea, they continue forward and climb the mountain. Here the Jewish people would likely have paused with great anticipation at what was about to happen because they knew that anytime you climb up a mountain, it is for one purpose: to meet God. Adam and Eve begin in Eden, which was a mountain. Abraham climbs a mountain to encounter His God. Alongside Him is Isaac who also encounters the Lord. Jacob too. Elijah, the same. And Moses has the most notable of all – he sees God face to face! So radiant was his face that the people asked him to wear a veil to cover his face because it hurt their eyes. He encountered God on that mountain and communed with Him so deeply that He was physically changed. And so Jesus climbs the mountain with His disciples and the people look on in stunned silence awaiting the event that was surely about to unfold. And then – He sits! This, too, might seem an unimportant detail but it has great weight in Jewish tradition because to sit was a sign of authority that one has over what is about to be said and done. Interestingly, these two still carry over into our Catholic faith, though you may never have realized it before. Have you noticed that nearly every Catholic church you’ve ever stepped foot in has a step or multiple steps to ascend to the altar? Even in our churches we recognize the need to ‘climb the mountain’ to meet our God. Often it is three steps, signifying the encounter with the Triune God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. And the sitting too has a place. In the manner of preaching the Word of God at Mass, a deacon is permitted to preach from the ambo where the Gospel is proclaimed. A priest is permitted to preach from the ambo or standing at the presider’s chair. A bishop, however, is permitted to preach from the ambo, standing at the presider’s chair, or sitting at the presider’s chair. He as a successor of the Apostles has the authority to speak sitting, unlike myself. It’s beautiful to realize how these things bear great significance even in our rituals today.

Continuing on, we see that Jesus has climbed the mountain and sat down. Now He raises His eyes to see the throng of people coming His way and turns to Phillip and asks where they can buy some food for everyone to eat. At this point I feel really bad for Phillip because it’s obviously a setup. Phillip, frustrated, responds that 200 days wages of money wouldn’t even put a dent in the cost to feed the people at their feet. Here Andrew pipes up with what I personally presume is a joking response of ‘Lord, this boy here has five barley loaves and 2 fish!’ as if that were going to help anything. Twenty loaves shouldn’t feed a hundred. What are five loaves to five thousand? And yet the Lord acknowledges it is enough and has everyone seated on the green grass, spoken of in Psalm 23, ready for the Good Shepherd to feed them. Note that it is barley loaves once more, just like Elisha had. He takes those loaves and gives thanks and distributes it to the people and, in like manner, the fish. Pretty soon all the people gathered have had their fill and the leftovers fill twelve wicker baskets. The Lord has provided for His people again, just like with Elisha! But something is different this time because the people see in the Lord something different and recognize Him as THE Prophet, not just A prophet. The Lord sees this and quickly wraps up the day, departing to be alone on the mountain.

The Lord Jesus worked a miracle that was absolutely incredible to everyone present there that day and to all who read it even now. But the question we must ask ourselves is this: how is it different from the miracle of Elisha? Yes, the Lord feeds more people with less bread, but is that all? I suggest that it is not and I further suggest that the key to understand the ‘something new’ that Jesus does is found in one little phrase that St. John includes and yet which doesn’t seem to fit: “The Jewish feast of Passover was near.” This insertion by John could easily be taken as a mere time indicator, but it is in fact the key to understanding the rest of John 6 and much of the theology of the Eucharist that has been taught from the earliest days of the Church. To assist us in this, let’s travel back in time to revisit the Passover.

It came about in the time of Israel’s slavery in Egypt. They had previously gone down in a time of famine and the people quickly began to prosper. They became a great nation of people and the Egyptians, fearing their takeover of the country, forced them into slavery. For several hundred years the people of Israel, the Jews, labored as slaves to Pharaoh. After a great time the Lord God came and told them it was time to leave Egypt and take possession of the Promised Land, the land promised to Abraham long ago and as yet unclaimed. Pharaoh rejects any possibility of the people leaving and increases the weight of their labors. In response the Lord sends the 10 Plagues. The water turns to blood and Pharaoh’s magicians do the same. The locusts come and Pharaoh mimics it as well. Even turning stick to snakes and other such marvels has no effect on the wicked master of the Israelites. And so the Lord send the 10th and final plague: the Angel of Death. On a particular night, the angel would pass over Egypt and kill the firstborn of every man and beast in the land. And to the Israelites He gave the directions on how to avoid such a death. He commanded that each family was to procure a spotless, unblemished lamb with no broken bones and to sacrifice it. They were to take the blood and sprinkle it on the doorpost of their homes with a hyssop branch and then roast the lamb, whole and entire. Once cooked, they were to sit down and eat the lamb as a family, but not in normal fashion. Instead, they were to be packed for travel and dressed to leave, sandals on their feet and their walking stick in hand. All the families who did so and partook of the lamb would be guaranteed to live to the next day and not suffer the terror of the final plague. And the people did it. That night as the Israelites slept in their bed, their stomachs full of fresh cooked lamb, the Angel of Death passed over Egypt killing every firstborn child and beast in the land. Pharaoh and the Egyptians woke up to a seen of absolute horror and actually commanded the Israelites to leave. They gave them their jewelry, clothing, food, and more as a way of pleading for them to get out of their country and give them some peace. And so the Israelites depart Egypt, pass through the Red Sea, wander 40 years in the desert, and ultimately find their way to the Promised Land that is symbolic of heavenly life.

The Passover was the beginning of that entire process of salvation and joy and, as such, was among the most important feast of the Jewish people. They were called to celebrate it each year, each family slaying a lamb and eating it in the same manner as their ancestors: ready for a journey because they had survived the Angel of Death.

Not only was it important to them, but it is especially important to us because it is the background for the words that Jesus will speak in these next four weeks. In the coming Sundays we will hear about a special food that we must eat, a food that is tied to a journey, a food that requires the shedding of blood, and one which has life and death consequences, literally. The Eucharist is not to be taken lightly but must be solemn reflected upon and honored. Join with me in this serious reflection upon the source and summit of the Christian life. For a bit of reflection for the week, I invite you to reflect simply on two questions:

The first is tied to the first reading. Did you notice that the barley loaves give to Elisha were from the firstfruits? These were the first part, the best part in a sense. So the question for us: Do I give God the first fruits of my day/week/life or am I content to give Him the leftovers or what I feel comfortable with?

Secondly, Do I trust the power of Jesus? It’s easy to say ‘yes, of course, Father, that’s why we’re here’ but I invite you to keep reflecting. Imagine you’re Andrew looking at a crowd of 5000 hungry people and we have 5 fives, do you trust Jesus?


Through the intercession of St. Ann, may these coming weeks see our heart draw even nearer to the Lord Jesus who humbles Himself to draw near to us.  

Friday, July 24, 2015

Absence

For those of you who check this blog regularly for Sunday homilies and the weekly Half-Way Prayer on Wednesday, you've likely noticed there has been none since July 1. This is because I've been having some trouble posting with my account. Thankfully I've finally been able to clear it all up and will resume posting with this weekend's homily which will begin our 5-week series of homilies on the Eucharist as we read through John 6 at Mass. 

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Papal Intentions for July 2015


Prayer for the Pope

V. Let us pray for Francis, our Pope.
R. May the Lord preserve him, give him life, 
and make him blessed upon the earth, 
and deliver him not up to the will of his enemies.
Our Father... Hail Mary...
O God, Shepherd and Ruler of all Thy faithful people, look mercifully upon Thy servant Francis, whom Thou hast chosen as shepherd to preside over Thy Church. Grant him, we beseech Thee, that by his word and example, he may edify those over whom he hath charge, so that together with the flock committed to him, may he attain everlasting life. 
Through Christ our Lord. 
Amen.

Papal Intentions for July 2015

Universal Intention: That political responsibility may be lived at all levels as a high form of charity. 

Mission Intention: That, amid social inequalities, Latin American Christians may bear witness to love for the poor and contribute to a more fraternal society.

Monday, June 29, 2015

The Response

Readings for Sunday, June 28/ 13th Sunday of Ordinary Time:
Wisdom 1:13-15; 2:23-24
Psalm 30
2 Corinthians 8:7,9,13-15
Mark 5:21-43

In his Apostolic Exhortation Evangelii Gaudium, The Joy of the Gospel, Pope Francis spoke to us these words: “The family is experiencing a profound cultural crisis, as are all communities and social bonds. In the case of the family, the weakening of these beonds is particularly serious because the family is the fundamental cell of society, where we learn to live with tohers depite our differences and to belong to one another; it is alos the place where parents pass on the faith to their children. Marriage no tends to be viewed as a form of mere emotional satisfaction that can be constructed in any way or modified at will. But the indispensable contribution of marriage to society transcends the feelings and momentary needs of the couple. As the French bishops have taught, it is not born ‘of loving sentiment, ephemeral by definition, but form the depth of the obligation assumed by spouses who accept to enter a total communion of life.’”

As you all presumably know, the Supreme Court of the United States announced their opinion Friday, decided by a 5-4 vote, to reject the traditional view of marriage in light of a new definition that permits ‘same-sex marriage’ in all 50 states. While this may upset us, it should surprise us because traditional marriage has been under attack for a long while and this is just one more step. Catholic theology on marriage notes that marriage has two ‘ends’ or ‘goals’, namely procreation and the good of the spouses, which basically means the union is emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, & physically beneficial. We can see that attacks on procreation began decades ago with the introduction and encouragement of contraceptives. This fundamentally separates marriage and its first end. Following behind it is the continued attack on children. Abortion necessarily follows because when contraception fails there has to be a means to be rid of the child one sought first to avoid. From there society made ‘advances’ in being able to choose certain attributes of their children and ‘get rid of’ children who had undesirable attributes. In vitro fertilization and other unethical means of creating life only further the chasm between marriage and the gift of children. The good of the spouses came under attack with the introduction of no-fault divorce, which necessarily makes marriage less binding and thus less valued. To this we can add the devaluing of women in general. It’s interesting to me that in an age when feminism fights so strongly for the rights of women to equal pay, equal job opportunity, etc. (rightly so!) that the culture continues to treat women worse and worse. Women are generally not valued in themselves for the gift that they are, but rather are used for their bodies and their ability to increase sales. This is only encouraged by the acceptance of pornography and pornographic films and books, which only seek to make people objects to be used instead of persons to be loved. With all that has happened to the two ends of marriage, it is no surprise then that the very definition of marriage itself should be free from attack.

The question is this: how do we respond?

I’ve seen responses ranging from fear, anger and despair to excitement, relief, and celebration. As Catholic we ought to stand on neither end of that spectrum but rather firmly planted in the middle full of faith, hope, and love. We are called to have faith that God is in control of this country and this world, regardless of what happens around us. We are called to have hope that Marriage would shine brightly in our culture and remind us of the love of God for us and our call to heavenly life. And we’re called to love. Love of every single person who stands in front of us, regardless of their age, sex, race, social status, sexual orientation, or any other personal attribute, because they are a person. Because they are created in the image and likeness of God. Because they were made to love and be loved.

A lot of times the Catholic Church is painted as this hate-filled body that spews its hatred and condemnation at people who identify as gay, lesbian, transgender, bi-sexual, queer, etc. But did you know the Church says the stands for the exact opposite? The Catechism says unambiguously that we are called to show them ‘respect, compassion, and sensitivity’ and that we are to avoid any sign of unjust discrimination toward them. Holy Mother Church loves all of her children and wants to have all of humanity rest in her loving arms. Sadly, we Catholics and fellow-Christians often failed to convey this truth, but the call still stands for us to be images of God’s love ourselves. This doesn’t mean that we condone or celebrate ‘same-sex marriage’ or relationships that lead to such, but it does mean continuing to love the other by showing respect, compassion, sensitivity, and honoring the dignity of others.

So our response needs to be one of faith, hope, and love, which is exactly the same at it has always been. The Supreme Court can say whatever it wants, but the ultimate reality is that the true King of this world is Jesus Christ. I love my country deeply, but we all have to remember that we’re Catholic first and American second. And that means that our Catholic faith informs everything we do. And what is our mission as Catholics? To shine with the light of Christ.

Did you hear the Collect at the beginning of Mass today? It’s easy to miss but it was beautiful: “O God, who through the grace of adoption chose us to be children of light, grant, we pray, that we may not be wrapped in the darkness of error but always be seen to stand in the bright light of truth.” I love that last line ‘be seen to stand in the bright light of truth’; not just to stand there, but to be seen standing there. We are called to be witnesses that reflect the Light of Christ as the moon reflects that of the sun.

As I noted last weekend, Holy Matrimony and Holy Orders both are sacraments of service. The entire goal of the individual is to get the other person to heaven. I’m a priest. I’m obligated to be a holy priest, a saintly priest. The Catechism tells me that my life as a priest is to be entirely consecrated to service of the others. Every moment of my day is to be dedicated to getting every single one of you and many others to walk through the pearly gates of heaven and sing the Gloria along with the angels and saints. And if I get there too, good! My call is to shine with the Light of Christ in holiness and priestly ministry.

Single people, your call is much the same. To consecrate your days to loving whoever stands before you. Love them as if it were Jesus Himself and seek to recognize in them the Christ who seeks to love you as well. Be holy and happy Catholics, radiating the joy of the Gospel in your eyes as well as on your lips. Seek the Lord at all times and trust in His guidance of you through all that life brings.

Married people, your call is the same, but even more important. When marriage is under attack, the need is for good, holy marriages to be even more visible and even more effective in their outpouring of love and witness of the goodness of the sacraments. You are called to be icons of the Most Blessed Trinity! The love of husbands for their wives and wives for their husbands is a powerful sign of the love of God for us, and the love of both for their children speaks even more fully of the life and love of God in Himself – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Husbands and wives, remember that your goal is not to get to Heaven and hopefully to drag your spouse along with you. The goal is to get your spouse to Heaven and for them to drag you! When this mutual selfless love is present then it produces saints, both in the parents and the children. The parents of St. Therese of Lisieux, Bl. Louis & Bl. Zelie Martin, will soon be canonized and only for the fact that they were a holy family. Be models for your children and for all the world of the gift of God’s grace, and the joy of selfless giving. It can seem that you have little effect on the world, ‘what good can I do in such a big world?’ you might be tempted to think. But remember that Pope St. John Paul II called the family the basic cell of society and a blessing to the world. Strong words. St. John Chrysostom has some strong words too in a homily on marriage as he reminds each and all of us that “The love of a husband and wife are the force that welds society together.”


Be the force and the weld. Be the blessing and the light. Be saints.

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

HWP: St. John the Baptist

Today is the feast of the Birth of St. John the Baptist. We celebrate only three earthly birthdays in the course of the liturgical year, each one highlighting the importance of the person in God's plan for salvation. So with that, we turn to St. John the forerunner of the Christ and implore his help and prayers to prepare our hearts to meet the Lord on the last day.

Prayer to St. John the Baptist
O Glorious Saint John the Baptist, greatest prophet among those born of woman, although you were sanctified in your mother’s womb and did lead a most innocent life, nevertheless it was your will to retire into the wilderness, there to devote yourself to the practice of austerity and penance, obtain for me from your Lord the grace to be wholly detached, at least in my heart, from earthly goods, and to practice Christian mortification with interior recollection and with the spirit of holy prayer. 
O Most Zealous Apostle, who, without working any miracle on others, but solely by the example of your life of penance and the power of your word, did draw after you the multitudes, in order to dispose them to receive the Messiah worthily and to listen to his heavenly doctrine, grant that it may be given unto me, by means of your example of a holy life and the exercise of every good work, to bring many souls to God, but above all to those souls that are enveloped in the darkness of error and ignorance and are led astray by vice. 
O Martyr Invincible, who, for the honor of God and the salvation of souls, did with firmness and constancy withstand the impiety of Herod even at the cost of your own life, and did rebuke him openly for his wicked and dissolute life, by your prayers obtain for me a heart, brave and generous, in order that I may overcome all human respect and openly profess my faith in loyal obedience to the teachings of Jesus Christ. 
Pray for me, Saint John the Baptist, that I may be made worthy of the promises of Christ, specifically, (STATE REQUEST). 
O God, who has made this day to be honorable in our eyes by the commemoration of blessed John the Baptist, grant unto your people the grace of spiritual joy, and direct the minds of all your faithful into the way of everlasting salvation. Amen.

Sunday, June 21, 2015

With Authority!

Tabernacle in progress...
Readings for Sunday, June 21/ 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
Job 28:1, 8-11
Psalm 107
2 Corinthians 5:14-17
Mark 4:35-41

My first experience of something like being a father came at Camp Chosatonga, where I worked as a camp counselor for two summers during my seminary formation. Unlike many camps where the kids would come for a week and then head home, the kids at this camp came for 3 ½ weeks or 5 weeks, some staying the whole 9 weeks. It was great because I was actually able to get to know the kids and because I stayed in the cabin, had to make sure they were taken care of. I had to do things that typical dads have to do: make sure they eat, clean their room, brush their teeth, shower regularly, etc. I also had to worry discipline them, encourage them, and sometimes give them guidance and direction on things at camp or back at home. Years later I continue to reflect upon those two summers, as I still keep in touch with a number of the boys, now young men, who were there. And it hits me specifically that if those few short weeks 10 years ago had such a profound impact upon those children, how much more does the relationship with their own fathers have an impact?

Looking at the world around us we see that fatherhood is in a major crisis at the moment. 1 in 3 children today are raised in homes without their biological father. Many have no father figure at all.  Add to this the media portrayal of fathers as a bunch of Homer Simpson look-alikes who are generally incompetent, angry, childish, or unconcerned about their family, and you soon have a picture of fatherhood that is anything but inspiring. The importance of a father, though, is something that continues to be shown in research even if not in the media; how the presence of a father direction affects a child’s education, behavior, proneness to depress, likeliness to engage in drug use or premarital sexual activity, fidelity in their future relationships, and even their religious upbringing. Did you know that when the father attends church weekly the child is 70% more likely to be religious as an adult? That’s huge.

I don’t want to get caught up in statistics though, because every study can be tweaked to it’s own desired end. I want to start at the beginning: “Male and female He created them; in His image and likeness He created them.” It’s about what the Church refers to as the complimentarity of the sexes, the fact that men and women were created by God to be men and women and eventually fathers and mothers, and that both are images of God. This weekend’s scriptures show us an attribute of God that is traditionally ascribed to men, namely, authority.

Years past heard the regular reference to the father as the head of the family, which rubs many people wrong these days. They hear ‘head of the family’ and shrink back because we’re in an age of equality when everyone should be on even ground and there’s no differences in anything, but the simple fact is the being equal doesn’t mean we’re all supposed to be the same. Everyone one of us is different in the church today, but we each have the same dignity, the same right, and the same value in the eyes of God. The simple fact is that men were created by God and designed to be the head of the family and that women were created by God and design to be the heart of the family. Women are naturally more nurturing and caring,. Men are naturally more inclined to discipline and direction. Have any of the ladies every been frustrated because you’re talking to a man and he seems not to understand that you just need him to listen but he keeps trying to offer advice on how to fix the situation or take some action toward a resolution? It’s written in our very sexuality as men! Unfortunately wounded humanity has often taken what is a good attribute and brought it to a sad end. Men have often exercised their authority in a negative fashion by degrading, oppressing, and becoming domineering to other, specifically their families. This is not the type of authority that God desires to be show in men. Rather, the type of authority God seeks to have us men exercise is demonstrated by the Lord Jesus in the Gospel and described by St. Paul in the Letter to the Corinthians. Jesus, knowing the need of His disciples, rebukes the wind and sea and exercises His rightful authority not for Himself but only for the service of His disciples. Here the words of St. Paul about ‘no longer living for oneself’ become particularly important. Authority has been entrusted to men, but it is an authority that manifests itself in service for those entrusted to him. Jesus teaches many powerful things and works miracle after miracle, showing His authority in each case. Not one time is it for His own glory or benefit, but always for the good of the other, out of love and concern for the other to have life here on this earth and to prepare for life in the world to come. Earthly Fatherhood is called to be a living image of the Fatherhood of God that is ever patient, present, guiding and directing us in the path that will bring us the greatest eternal reward. It’s love in a different light.

Last weekend, if you remember, the scriptures were all about plants and how the farmer sows the seed and it brings for a blade, then an ear, then the grain, and then it’s harvest time, though the farmer knows not how. That passage made me think about how while God sometimes does miraculous things, the real action of God is in the everyday stuff of life; it’s in the daily growth of the plant that’s easy to miss unless we’re very attentive. This was in my mind when I went to my mom and stepdad’s house the other day to work on building a box. I arrived and my stepdad stopped what he was working on and sat down to have lunch with me. Then we went over my ideas and he asked me all sorts of questions about different options, what I was envisioning, whether my measurements would be right, and so on. Then we went to the garage and he showed me how to use the table saw, which we didn’t have when I lived at home. He pointed to the blade and said, “Don’t touch this.” We went through it all and then he helped me make the first few cut on the large sheet of plywood I was using. Then he went back to his work. Every now and then he’d pop his head into the garage and wave his fingers at me and ask, “Still got 10?” and I’d wave mine back and say, “Yes sir!” As I worked I was filled with gratitude because my stepdad was showing me the love of the Father in the way that men do it best, by exercising self-less authority and guidance. He took time from his project to simply be with me, to guide and direct me, to encourage me in my own work, to show me what to do and enable me to reach the end that I was aiming for. It wasn’t anything spectacular or miraculous but it was a reminder that God is always at work doing the same – making a point to be with us, guiding us, encouraging us, and directing us to eternal life. The love of a father.


So, fathers, I have a simple request and it is but an echo of Pope Francis’ recent addresses: play with your kids. It doesn’t matter what you do, just make time to play with them, to be with them, to guide and encourage them. If you do, you can rest assured that they’re in good hands because they won’t be receiving just your love, they’ll be seeing and experiencing the love of the Father through you.

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

HWP: Prayer for Newlyweds

This past weekend I had the joy of assisting at the diocesan Catholic Engaged Encounter retreat for couples preparing for the sacrament of matrimony. With them in mind, I want to offer for the HWP this week:

A Prayer for All Newlyweds
Thank You Father God for marriage and we lift-up to You all those that are married – and especially those that have been recently married – the newly-weds, knowing that marriage is instituted of God, but also knowing that the world at large is at enmity with You and seems to have waged war on the sacred establishment of matrimony and family life.

Give wisdom to all Christian couples and especially those that have recently become newlywed, that they give heed to the truth of Your word and demonstrate the joy that comes from living a life as unto the Lord.

Help them to trust in You as their God and Saviour and to keep You at the centre of their marriage. Help them to live in humble obedience to Your Word and may they demonstrate the love of God and the wisdom of His Word to the world at large, in all they say and do.

Help all newlywed Christian couples to establish and maintain the kind of marriage that is pleasing in Your sight- where the husband loves his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her and where the wife is gentle and submissive to her husband – the encourager, support and helper as laid out in Scripture - and use them to be a light to others whose marriages may be fraught with difficulties or disintegrating due to sin.

Bless we pray all newlyweds today and may they grow in grace and in a knowledge of Jesus Christ, throughout the course of their marriage to Your praise and glory,

Amen.