Isaiah 62:1-5
Psalm 96:1-3, 7-10
1 Corinthians 12:4-11
John 2:1-11
“And the mother of Jesus was
there.”
As I was praying with the
Gospel for today, that passage stuck out to me. It seems to be a simple
statement of Mary’s presence at the feast, so as to introduce her who will
momentarily encourage the Lord Jesus to begin His earthly ministry. And yet at
the same time, there is a certain richness in it – Mary was there. She was
present with Christ, faithful and urging Him on the way to the fulfillment of
the Father’s will. In the same way, she is always there for us too, her
spiritual children. We might be totally unaware of it, but that does not change
the fact that she is there.
Yesterday during our high
school day retreat we were touring the church and looking at the symbolism of the
altar, vessels, and various things in the church when a question was asked
about the stained glass windows. Fr. Vincent answered the question and then
pointed out the detail in the windows. On one side of the church all the way
down there grape clusters in the design. On the other side of the church all
the way down there are images of wheat in the design. Grapes and wheat, wine
and bread. A beautiful symbol of the Eucharist and a reminder as they line the
whole body of the Church that we are all members of the Mystical Body of
Christ, called to be shared with the whole world. I had noticed the grapes, but
never the wheat. I was feeling bad for having missed that when one of the
parents said “I’ve been coming here for 40 years and never noticed that!”
Suddenly, I didn’t feel so bad for having missed it only 6 months. But the
point was that they had been there the whole time, the beautiful windows
conveying a message to encourage us in our faith, even if we are unaware of
that message. And the same is true of Our Lady.
For years I didn’t know Mary
as a spiritual mother. I honored her as I knew that I should. I prayed the
rosary from time to time and certainly knew that she held a very special place
in the story of our faith. But I didn’t know her as a mother. It was actually
in my first year in seminary that I really began to understand this reality of
Mary’s spiritual maternity. A friend of mine asked me to join in praying a
consecration to Jesus through Mary according to the method of St. Louis de
Montfort. I agreed and started the preparation for the consecration, a 33-day
process. As I read the readings and reflections I began to understand the role
that Mary had played in my life until then and continuing ever since and
rejoiced that I had someone in heaven who was constantly praying for me and
being mindful of me, as a mother never forgets her children.
This spiritual maternity is
actually something we see in the gospel for today, which can seem a bit rough
if we don’t understand it properly. To say ‘woman’ is not a exactly a term of
endearment. In fact, I’m quite sure if I ever addressed my mom as ‘woman’ I wouldn’t
be able to stand up for a good while. But for the Lord to say this to His
mother at the wedding feast is quite different. The only other time He
addressed Our Lady as ‘woman’ was at the Crucifixion, when he said ‘Woman,
behold your son. Son, behold your mother.’ Those two moments, the beginning and
end of His earthly ministry, point us to that first person who was called ‘woman’
– Eve, the mother of all the living. By calling Mary ‘woman’ He is connecting
her with Eve and showing us that she is our new mother and indeed the mother of
all the living – but not according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
She is our spiritual mother and as such she is seeking to bring us spiritual life
by guiding us in the path to glory while we journey on Earth – whether we are
aware or unaware.
My consecration to Mary was a
significant point in deepening my relationship with Mary as my mother. But I
also have to admit that I sometimes stray in that relationship. It is for a
good reason that I somewhat jokingly call myself a ‘wayward son of Mary’ but
the beautiful thing is that she is faithful and always brings me back to
Christ. What a blessing to have such a mother! Always faithful, always there.