Wisdom 1:13-15; 2:23-24
Psalm 30
2 Corinthians 8:7,9,13-15
Mark 5:21-43
In his Apostolic Exhortation
Evangelii Gaudium, The Joy of the Gospel, Pope Francis spoke to us these words:
“The family is experiencing a profound
cultural crisis, as are all communities and social bonds. In the case of the
family, the weakening of these beonds is particularly serious because the
family is the fundamental cell of society, where we learn to live with tohers
depite our differences and to belong to one another; it is alos the place where
parents pass on the faith to their children. Marriage no tends to be viewed as
a form of mere emotional satisfaction that can be constructed in any way or
modified at will. But the indispensable contribution of marriage to society
transcends the feelings and momentary needs of the couple. As the French bishops
have taught, it is not born ‘of loving sentiment, ephemeral by definition, but
form the depth of the obligation assumed by spouses who accept to enter a total
communion of life.’”
As you all presumably know, the
Supreme Court of the United States announced their opinion Friday, decided by a
5-4 vote, to reject the traditional view of marriage in light of a new
definition that permits ‘same-sex marriage’ in all 50 states. While this may
upset us, it should surprise us because traditional marriage has been under
attack for a long while and this is just one more step. Catholic theology on
marriage notes that marriage has two ‘ends’ or ‘goals’, namely procreation and
the good of the spouses, which basically means the union is emotionally,
spiritually, psychologically, & physically beneficial. We can see that
attacks on procreation began decades ago with the introduction and
encouragement of contraceptives. This fundamentally separates marriage and its
first end. Following behind it is the continued attack on children. Abortion
necessarily follows because when contraception fails there has to be a means to
be rid of the child one sought first to avoid. From there society made
‘advances’ in being able to choose certain attributes of their children and
‘get rid of’ children who had undesirable attributes. In vitro fertilization
and other unethical means of creating life only further the chasm between
marriage and the gift of children. The good of the spouses came under attack
with the introduction of no-fault divorce, which necessarily makes marriage
less binding and thus less valued. To this we can add the devaluing of women in
general. It’s interesting to me that in an age when feminism fights so strongly
for the rights of women to equal pay, equal job opportunity, etc. (rightly so!)
that the culture continues to treat women worse and worse. Women are generally
not valued in themselves for the gift that they are, but rather are used for
their bodies and their ability to increase sales. This is only encouraged by the
acceptance of pornography and pornographic films and books, which only seek to
make people objects to be used instead of persons to be loved. With all that
has happened to the two ends of marriage, it is no surprise then that the very
definition of marriage itself should be free from attack.
The question is this: how do we
respond?
I’ve seen responses ranging from
fear, anger and despair to excitement, relief, and celebration. As Catholic we
ought to stand on neither end of that spectrum but rather firmly planted in the
middle full of faith, hope, and love. We are called to have faith that God is
in control of this country and this world, regardless of what happens around
us. We are called to have hope that Marriage would shine brightly in our
culture and remind us of the love of God for us and our call to heavenly life.
And we’re called to love. Love of every single person who stands in front of
us, regardless of their age, sex, race, social status, sexual orientation, or
any other personal attribute, because they are a person. Because they are
created in the image and likeness of God. Because they were made to love and be
loved.
A lot of times the Catholic
Church is painted as this hate-filled body that spews its hatred and
condemnation at people who identify as gay, lesbian, transgender, bi-sexual,
queer, etc. But did you know the Church says the stands for the exact opposite?
The Catechism says unambiguously that we are called to show them ‘respect,
compassion, and sensitivity’ and that we are to avoid any sign of unjust
discrimination toward them. Holy Mother Church loves all of her children and
wants to have all of humanity rest in her loving arms. Sadly, we Catholics and
fellow-Christians often failed to convey this truth, but the call still stands for us to
be images of God’s love ourselves. This doesn’t mean that we condone or
celebrate ‘same-sex marriage’ or relationships that lead to such, but it does
mean continuing to love the other by showing respect, compassion, sensitivity,
and honoring the dignity of others.
So our response needs to be one
of faith, hope, and love, which is exactly the same at it has always been. The
Supreme Court can say whatever it wants, but the ultimate reality is that the
true King of this world is Jesus Christ. I love my country deeply, but we all
have to remember that we’re Catholic first and American second. And that means
that our Catholic faith informs everything we do. And what is our mission as
Catholics? To shine with the light of Christ.
Did you hear the Collect at the
beginning of Mass today? It’s easy to miss but it was beautiful: “O God, who
through the grace of adoption chose us to be children of light, grant, we pray,
that we may not be wrapped in the darkness of error but always be seen to stand
in the bright light of truth.” I love that last line ‘be seen to stand in the
bright light of truth’; not just to stand there, but to be seen standing there.
We are called to be witnesses that reflect the Light of Christ as the moon
reflects that of the sun.
As I noted last weekend, Holy
Matrimony and Holy Orders both are sacraments of service. The entire goal of
the individual is to get the other person to heaven. I’m a priest. I’m
obligated to be a holy priest, a saintly priest. The Catechism tells me that my
life as a priest is to be entirely consecrated to service of the others. Every
moment of my day is to be dedicated to getting every single one of you and many
others to walk through the pearly gates of heaven and sing the Gloria along
with the angels and saints. And if I get there too, good! My call is to shine
with the Light of Christ in holiness and priestly ministry.
Single people, your call is much
the same. To consecrate your days to loving whoever stands before you. Love
them as if it were Jesus Himself and seek to recognize in them the Christ who
seeks to love you as well. Be holy and happy Catholics, radiating the joy of
the Gospel in your eyes as well as on your lips. Seek the Lord at all times and
trust in His guidance of you through all that life brings.
Married people, your call is the
same, but even more important. When marriage is under attack, the need is for
good, holy marriages to be even more visible and even more effective in their
outpouring of love and witness of the goodness of the sacraments. You are
called to be icons of the Most Blessed Trinity! The love of husbands for their
wives and wives for their husbands is a powerful sign of the love of God for
us, and the love of both for their children speaks even more fully of the life
and love of God in Himself – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Husbands and wives,
remember that your goal is not to get to Heaven and hopefully to drag your
spouse along with you. The goal is to get your spouse to Heaven and for them to
drag you! When this mutual selfless love is present then it produces saints,
both in the parents and the children. The parents of St. Therese of Lisieux,
Bl. Louis & Bl. Zelie Martin, will soon be canonized and only for the fact
that they were a holy family. Be models for your children and for all the world
of the gift of God’s grace, and the joy of selfless giving. It can seem that
you have little effect on the world, ‘what good can I do in such a big world?’
you might be tempted to think. But remember that Pope St. John Paul II called
the family the basic cell of society and a blessing to the world. Strong words.
St. John Chrysostom has some strong words too in a homily on marriage as he
reminds each and all of us that “The love of a husband and wife are the force
that welds society together.”
Be the force and the weld. Be the
blessing and the light. Be saints.